Tuesday, 10 December 2013

Nelson Mandela memorial service: In pictures!



Nelson Mandela 1997
Tens of thousands of people are joining world leaders at a memorial service for former South African President Nelson Mandela in Johannesburg.

Inside the stadium

The service is being held at the FNB stadium, where Mr Mandela made his last public appearance. It is also being shown on big screens at three "overflow" stadiums.
Graca Machel listens to speakers
Some of the first people to arrive at the 95,000-seat FNB Stadium

Archbishop Desmond Tutu
Former South African president Thabo Mbeki and his wife Zanele

People attend the memorial service for South African former president Nelson Mandela at the FNB Stadium (Soccer City) in Johannesburg on December 10, 2013

US President Barack Obama delivers a speech

People dance as they enter Soccer City Stadium in Johannesburg to attend the memorial service for Nelson Mandela on December 10, 2013

Former South African president FW De Klerk gestures as he arrives with his wife Elita

People holding a giant portrait of Nelson Mandela arrive moments before the memorial service on December 10, 2013 at Soccer City Stadium in Johannesburg


People start singing as they arrive for a mass memorial for Nelson Mandela in Johannesburg


People sing and dance ahead of Mandela's national memorial service in Johannesburg


People arrive at First National Bank Stadium ahead of a memorial service for Nelson Mandela in Johannesburg

A woman waits for the start of the official memorial service for late South African President Nelson Mandela at the FNB soccer stadium in Johannesburg

People sing and dance at official memorial service for Mandela in Johannesburg





Monday, 9 December 2013

KIM KARDASHIAN INVITES FAN TO WATCH KANYE WITH HER!


Kim Kardashian invites a fan to sit with her at Kanye West's concert

Keeping Up With The Kardashians fan got a surprise when she tweeted about looking out for Kim Kardashian at a Kanye West show recently.
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No sooner had Myleeza Kardas sent her message on the social networking site than she got a reply from the US reality TV queen herself - inviting her to join her in a VIP box.

Myleeza was attending Yeezy's show in New Orleans when she sent the tweet, and she swiftly got a reply from Kim which read: "I'm sending someone to go get you so you can come sit with me!!! Need your seat # and section. DM me ASAP!!!"
And as well as hanging with Kimmy for the show, Myleeza also got to go backstage and meet Kanye afterwards.
The fan tweeted later: "From the bottom of my heart, sis THANK YOU. You never cease to amaze me with your kindness and loyalty! I love you SO MUCH."
Kim Kardashian invites a fan to sit with her at Kanye West's concert
To which Kardashian responded: "I had the best time, so happy you did too! Xo."
Myleeza has been busy fielding questions from other Kim fans since her big day out.
Kim Kardashian invites a fan to sit with her at Kanye West's concertKim Kardashian invites a fan to sit with her at Kanye West's concert

Kim Kardashian invites a fan to sit with her at Kanye West's concertKim Kardashian invites a fan to sit with her at Kanye West's concert

CAR- French troops to begin disarming rebels!



It has been reported that French troops will begin to disarm militants in the Central African Republic come Monday December 9th, 2013, It was also reported that French presence in the capital of Bangui and nearby towns was creating tensions with former Seleko rebels on ground.

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A French soldier in the Central African Republic (CAR) capital of Bangui.

French troops are set to start disarming militias in the Central African Republic (CAR) following a wave of sectarian violence in the capital of Bangui that has left around 400 people dead.
French Defence Minister Jean-Yves Le Drian said French soldiers would begin disarming rebels on Monday morning. “The period of impunity is over,” he said on French RTL radio on Sunday evening.

Calm has been largely restored to Bangui since French troops began patrolling its streets and neighbouring towns in the wake of a new UN Security Council-backed mission that allows the use of force to protect the lives of civilians.
Many terrified residents of the capital still refused to leave their homes after rival militia groups attacked civilians with knives and machetes last week.
People do feel safer. This doesn’t mean that there are no militias left in Bangui or the countryside,” said FRANCE 24’s Alexander Turnbull in Bangui.
It’s true that tensions have eased a little but people still stay at home as much as they can. The real difficulty for them at the moment is trying to find food supplies," he said.

Tensions rising
French army spokesman Colonel Gilles Jaron said the French military mission had reached its full strength of 1,600 by Sunday.
Following the deadly violence, the African Union plans to boost the regional MISCA force on the ground to 6,000 troops from a planned 3,600.
Jaron also noted tension between the French soldiers and former Seleka rebels who have largely been in control of Bangui since a March coup.
I think they have understood they will have to be re-grouped, disarmed, that the French force is imposing itself in the capital at their expense, which is creating tension," Jaron noted.
A French patrol came under fire near the airport on Sunday but a military source said no one was injured.
The Seleka rebels mostly come from CAR’s Muslim minority. While the transitional president, Michel Djotodia, officially disbanded the Seleka alliance, in reality, the former rebel leader lost control of rebel fighters.
Meanwhile, Christian vigilante groups known as the “anti-balaka” sprang up to defend their communities but some also have committed revenge attacks  on Muslim communities.


Source: FRANCE 24 and  AFP

Cyber Bullying: This Toke Makinwa and Linda Ikeji Issue!


Toke Makinwa and Linda Ikeji Pictured below:



Let me start by saying, we sometimes avoid those 
touchy subjects because we wish to avoid “drama” 
but Cyber Bullying is one concept it seems we are 
yet to get a full grasp on its consequences. Currently, 
in America there is a full campaign launched against 
bullying in general, where different celebs have been 
actively campaigning to stop bullying. We have seen 
cases of young ones committing  suicide because 
they couldn’t handle the bullying. I pray and hope 
things don’t get this far in my motherland, although 
I suspect it may have and we just don’t document it 
as much.


For the sake of time, I will try not to over talk but a 

lot has to be said to make my point very clear so kindly 
excuse the long read, (I tend to do that when i am 
passionate about something). I know a lot keep quiet 
to avoid backlash but hey, it is what it is.

There is this ”trend” of making vicious comments about 

others that has become popularized by certain blogs. 
Overtime, its now seeming like the norm, with more 
people appearing to see nothing wrong with it. 
We even have corporate brands willing to identify 
with such sites irrespective of the damage or harm 
they cause.

I have seen it happen to celebrities and non celebrities 

alike, some notable names being Tonto Dikeh, Dbanj, and most 
especially Karen Igho, just to name a few. Its like the general 
mentality has become, if you ever become the topic on certain 
blogs, get ready to either grow thick skin or have a mini heart 
attack. We are not all built the same so lets hope those 
who will still be victim, do the former.

This trend of Vicious, Nasty, Bitter comments can make your 

skin crawl. Yeah, nobody holy pass and I am certainly not an 
angel, we tease each other all the time, some of us even enjoy 
a bit of fashion police when we see things outright wrong but 
we should also know where to draw the line. I am sure we 
can all make our point without being outright wicked. I 
have seen some comments about an outfit I wore to a 
concert on Bella Naija that made me laugh, like, these 
people got jokes for days. They were not what I would 
have liked to hear but they were also not wicked or cruel. 
but I digress!

They say as a celeb you are meant to have thick skin, but in 

the same token, as a human being we must all set good examples 
for those who look up to us. Imagine having a generation of people 
who see nothing wrong with hurting each other all in the name of fun.

Anyways lets fast forward to why we are here. There is a blog 

very notable for nasty comments, in fact more people visit the 
blog because of its comments than its content. The blog is owned 
and run by a lady named Linda. Please keep in mind,  I have nothing 
against her, she is a hard working lady who has made a name for 
herself, but I also wont for the sake of status not call a spade 
a spade. I am not singling her out just for the sake of it, 
but she just happens to be the 2nd party involved in the 
issue I want to discuss.

I will make my case based on my observations about her blog 

or her (it gets confusing seeing as she approves the comments 
that make public view so if she wasn’t ok with it, we probably 
wouldn’t see it). You are probably asking yourself, as long as 
its not me being targeted, why should I be concerned? guess 
what, it is all of our business because God forbid what is being 
seen as “ok” now, may affect you someday.

Aside from being a simple to read source for news, overtime, 

the blog has grown into some sort of “haven” for anonymous 
commenters who wish to pour out the darkness inside them all 
in the name of commenting about others. They have even taken
it several notches up and attack each other. Today, I saw tweets 
to the effect that Toke Makinwa was being attacked on a certain 
blog. One of the retweets took me to the source and my heart 
was like, something has to be said. If it changes something, fine. 
If it doesn’t, that’s fine too.

What I noted was that the past few days has seen blogger Linda 

hammer on and on about Toke’s Relationship breaking up, or 
posting a reference to being engaged for too long, or posting 
pictures of the babe calling it ”stunning” in her usual sarcastic 
style, and allowing her readers do the rest. When I mean 
“the rest” I am talking about the outright nasty, vicious, 
malicious comments posted about this lady from people 
who do not even know her.  Lets not forget some past 
commenters who would even claim to know the subject 
personally and proceed to post “personal” information 
about the person.. if they are lies, we do not know, 
but we still get to watch the defamation go on and all these 
are approved by the blog owner.


Toke may not say anything because she wishes to appear strong

and non chalant, but damn, she isn’t made of steel and has blood 
in her veins and emotions  like we all do. Last time I checked, most 
people that have been a victim of cyber bullying such as this are 
human too. Also, there is no age restriction on these blogs so 
your kids are reading and learning. To those who make 
these comments its “fun”, but when does fun turn into torment 
and emotional abuse?

Toke and I are not close friends so I have nothing to gain from 

defending her except calling a spade a spade. Everything beyond 
and above this point is my opinion and analysis of the situation. 
If I am wrong, my apologies in advance but I seriously doubt ill
 be far from the truth.

In my opinion I feel she(Linda) put Toke under the “hate” radar 

simply because she(Toke) made a statement on her radio show 
that “Linda was not a role model”. Linda took it very personal 
because she took to her blog to post one long epistle about bla 
bla bla. After that, its been Toke this, Toke that, knowing full 
well the type of readers she has and the type of comments 
it will generate (its like the same ol thing, different person).. 
ahh ahhh. If Toke doesn’t see Linda as a role mode, She(Toke) 
is entitled to her opinion and as long as she was not abusive 
when she said it, I see no harm in that. So why take it 
so personal to the point of being vindictive?

You see, the irony in the comment Toke made is that, by constantly

 putting her under attack from her readers, she is indirectly proving 
Toke right. I sure as hell would not want my child seeing someone 
who promotes hate as a role model and I am sure neither would you. 
Like I said, this trend did not start today, its been ongoing and has 
easily become what her blog is known for. Lets not get into the 
“Failed Model” comment from Tonto Dike that got Tonto 1st place 
“lets verbally bash her” position. At least Tonto can rest small as 
it seems Toke is the hot new “lets verbally bash her” in town.

If someone is having personal issues, offer words of support and 

move on, if she likes going to parties, free her because she is using 
her legs and not yours. If she wants to vlog about her life, take 
what you can from it and keep it moving. Try and distinct 
constructive comments from vicious ones. Try to distinct funny 
from wicked.

From the little I know about her, Toke Makinwa is a sweet lady. 

She is friendly, funny and down to earth so it leaves me wondering, 
what all these people raining hurtful abuses about her stand to gain. 
Even if she is not all these things, if they don’t know her personally, 
what do they stand to gain? You want to know the answer? 
Absolutely NOTHING!. They comment, laugh, and move on. 
To them its entertainment but to the person who is being 
picked on, its not close to funny. When it becomes a family 
member, its not close to funny. If it is your child someday, 
it will not be close to funny.

With that said, I hope people search their conscience before 

they comment. If not, no problem. We can’t see you as anonymous 
but God knows how its going down. Please keep in mind, I know 
some will try to make a mountain out of a molehill about what 
I just wrote no be today una don dey do am, I will not engage 
you so don’t waste your time.  ps:Its easy to say American 
blogs do it to, but I ask, why must we copy the negative

Lastly if Linda decides to post another one of her “epistles” 

simply because I have said something a lot of people who 
smile in her face and a lot of celebrities, say behind her back. 
Its all good, free world. I write not to offend anyone. 
I understand that the truth can sometimes be a bitter pill to 
swallow. All the same, its all love.

I have had some deep discussions about this wieght a few 

big name celebrities and hopefully, as the years progress, 
something can be done to see a big reduction in cyber 
bullying. Lets aspire to love more and hate less.

Sorry for the long post, if there are any typos or grammatical 

errors, sorry for that too.  God Bless.

By 
Toni Payne

Thursday, 5 December 2013

Nelson Mandela dies at 95!


Our Hero has finally taken a bow



You will be greatly missed Madiba!



Adieu

CLASHES SWEEP CAR CAPITAL AS FRENCH TROOPS ENTER CAR!


The French army deployed 250 troops to the capital of the Central African Republic, the Defence Ministry said on Thursday after clashes broke out between former rebels and militias.
French military packing their bag aboard the French Navy amphibious assault ship BPC Dixmude moored in the port of Douala, Dec. 3, 2013.
"At this stage 250 French soldiers have been deployed in Bangui to secure and patrol," ministry spokesman Gilles Jarron told a news briefing, adding that the clashes were continuing.
Earlier, a Reuters witness said at least 23 people were killed and 64 others wounded in armed clashes in Bangui.
seleka
It was gathered that armed Christian fighters who support the country's exiled president assaulted the capital at dawn on Thursday with rifles and machetes, leaving nearly 100 people dead. Shrouded bodies were lined up in a mosque as dozens of wounded lay on blood-stained hospital floors.
The ambush on Muslim neighborhoods of Bangui came as the United Nations voted to send a contingent of French troops to try to stabilize the country, and French President Francois Hollande announced plans to double the force. The daylong gunbattle touched even the most protected parts of the capital, including the residence of the prime minister, underscoring the volatile mix of arms and ideology facing the arriving French force.
Scores died in Thursday's attack, including 48 people whose bodies were laid out at a mosque in a northern suburb of Bangui. Separately, a Doctors Without Borders spokeswoman, Amelie Ketoff, said another 50 deaths had been confirmed, bringing the toll to 98.
Some died of bullet wounds, others from what appeared to be machete blows using a weapon known in the local language as a "balaka." The Christian militia, whose members are believed to have led the attack Thursday, call themselves the "anti-balaka," reminiscent of the horrific violence once seen in Rwanda.
Rebel leader-turned-president Michel Djotodia appealed for calm, even as his residence was looted and vandalized by the fighters. He announced a dusk-to-dawn curfew in a bid to stem the threat of retaliatory violence against Christians, following the early morning attack on Muslim neighborhoods.
"This morning the enemies of Central African Republic wanted to destabilize the country but they have failed," Djotodia announced in a speech broadcast in the Sango language on state radio.
France already has hundreds of soldiers in Bangui, and an armored personnel carrier and other military vehicles patrolled the streets. The roads were otherwise bare except for the brightly painted pickup trucks driven by the ex-rebels who run the government.
The resolution passed by the U.N. Security Council on Thursday allows France to send hundreds more troops for a temporary period. Speaking from the Elysee Palace in Paris, Hollande said the 600 troops already in the country would be doubled "within a few days, even a few hours" to around 1,200.
The U.N. measure also authorizes the deployment of an African Union-led force to Central African Republic for a year to protect civilians and restore public order. The AU force is replacing a regional peacekeeping mission whose presence has been mainly limited to the capital and a few northern cities.
"It's necessary to intervene very quickly to establish order in this country, in order that humanitarian aid arrives and to avoid an actual civil war based on religion," said France's U.N. ambassador, Gerard Araud, speaking on French RTL radio Thursday.
Central African Republic, a desperately poor country in the heart of Africa where the life expectancy is a mere 48 years, has been roiled by rebellions and coups for decades. The president ousted in March had himself ascended to power by force a decade earlier.
Djotodia, the country's current ruler, who is Muslim, managed to unify several rebel groups in the country's mostly Muslim north, where resentment of the federal government and a sense of disenfranchisement has been rife for years. Once those rebels — known as Seleka, the local word for coalition — were unleashed upon the capital, though, he wielded very little control over the mélange of bush fighters, child soldiers and foreign mercenaries he had recruited along the way.
Before long, human rights groups were documenting cases of Seleka rebels going door to door with machetes, bludgeoning their victims and burning down scores of homes. Supporters of the ousted president began rising up in opposition to the lawless and ruthless rebels, forming self-defense militias. Thursday's attack demonstrates that these fighters are more than vengeance-seeking civilians with artisanal hunting rifles.
"This is not a war between an army and a rebel group. It's really become a conflict between communities where people are being targeted based on their religion," said Peter Bouckaert of Human Rights Watch, who has documented scores of attacks in Central African Republic.
"And it is actually the Muslim community which is the most vulnerable because of the vast abuses committed by the Seleka and the fact that they are a relatively small minority amongst a much larger Christian population who are just furious because of the abuses they have suffered" under the Seleka.
Camal Fodor managed to get his friend to a health clinic by 7 a.m., but seven hours later he still lay listless on a bench.
"The anti-balaka attacked our neighborhood and he was shot in the stomach," Fodor said of his friend, Solomon Haroun, whose blood-soaked T-shirt was dripping blood through the cracks of a wooden bench, where it pooled on the floor below, next to another man awaiting treatment for gunshot wounds.
In another sign of the growing melee, Prime Minister Nicholas Tiangaye confirmed his house had been looted, describing the attackers as a group of Seleka who arrived in three four-wheel-drive pickup trucks.
Speaking in Paris to the Associated Press, Tiangaye said he had been informed that the provisional toll was "more than 100 dead and several hundred wounded."
Babacar Gaye, the U.N. special representative for the Central African Republic, appealed for calm in a joint statement from the U.N., European Union, African Union and France.
In the hills overlooking Bangui, dotted with banana trees, the ex-Seleka fighters spent Thursday afternoon showing off the weapons they'd seized from the enemy earlier in the day. The fighters traded combat boots for flip flops and munched on French baguettes in the shade.
Gen. Bachar Fadoul says the Christian militia may attempt another attack but his troops will be waiting.
"We will hunt them down and chase them from the city," he said.

Kidnappers Contact 29-Year Old Ayobami Jaiyeola’s Family!


A man suspected to be Ayobami’s kidnapper has contacted her family.


He called her elder sister, whom Ayobami lived with yesterday to inform her that he knows her whereabout, but refused to speak further when he was questioned. Since then, nothing has been heard from him again. 

Her family members are now suspecting she was kidnapped. 


Ayobami returned to Nigeria January 2013, for her youth service after graduating from University of Marlyland, United State. 

May the Lord keep her safe and change the minds of those holding her in captivity, Amen.