My wife is still seeing her ex-lovers - Pastor tells a Lagos Customary Court!

A 51-year-old pastor, Mr. Sunday Owonikoko, has pleaded with the Orile-Agege Customary Court to dissolve his union with Mrs. Bolajoko Owonikoko over infidelity and threat to life on the part of the wife.

The couple has been together for 20 years and has four children.

Owonikoko, who lives at 1, Alowonle Street, Papa Ashafa, Orile-Agege, told the court that his wife, Bolajoko, was still seeing her ex-lovers.

"My wife once travelled to Ghana to meet one of her concubines; she did family planning without my consent and she goes out at will.

"She was suspended from the church for six months because she fought with all the ministers in the church.

"She established her own church, she fought all the members of the church and they all left," he said.

The father of four children, aged between 11 and 19 years, also told the court that his wife threatened to destroy him and the church.

"My wife threatened to destroy my ministry and also said she would kill me. I want the court to dissolve the union and grant me the custody of my children," he said.

However, Bolajoko, 47, denied the allegations.

She said, "My husband is adulterous; he has almost slept with all of the sisters in the church.

"A mother of seven is currently living with him as I speak and he has made the woman an evangelist," she said.

Bolajoko also told the court that since her husband ate vegetable soup in one of the sisters' house, "he has lost his mind. I don't love him anymore, I want a divorce."

The court president, Mr. Joseph Adewusi, told the couple to maintain the peace.

He adjourned the case till July 15, 2013.

‘My husband kept secret wife, children for 10 years’!

”My husband is a pathological liar, it was ten years after our marriage that I knew the woman he called his cousin and her children were his wife and children. My husband lied that he was going to Abuja for a training programme. I was surprised when I was told that he now lives in Mushin in a police woman’s house,” embattled housewife, Rashidat Adeniyi, told an Agege-Orile, Lagos  customary court.

The husband, Toyin Adeniyi, 50, denied the allegations. Toyin, an engineer, said, “Because, I am a handsome man, ladies fall for me, so it can be one of the strategies to cause quarrels between us that she heard those lies.

”I left the house because I owed a year rent and I told my wife that I would come for her and the children when I am back on my feet,” he said.

Rashidat  pleaded with the court to dissolve her 19-year-old marriage over two years desertion by her husband. The 33-year-old computer analyst, who lives at 33, Alaramimo Street, Orile-Agege, told the court that her husband left the house two years ago for a police woman’s house.

She told the court that it was after ten years of marriage that she knew that her husband had a wife and children before she married him.

The mother of three asked the court to dissolve the marriage and grant her the custody of the children.

Meanwhile, the husband said he still loved his wife, and not in support of the dissolution. ”Since, I am the busy type, anytime I left the house, my wife always suspected me.  I haven’t told anyone that I am a widower,” he stated. Toyin explained that the police woman the wife was referring to was just a friend.

The court President, Mr Joseph Adewusi, told the couple to maintain the peace and adjourned the case to July 22 for judgment.

Happy Birthday Gurl!

God sent HIS SON, we call him JESUS,
HE came to Love,
To Heal 
and to Forgive,
HE died to buy my pardon;

An empty grave 
is there to prove
My Savior Lives.

So.....
because He lives, 
I can face tomorrow,
because He lives,
all fear is gone;

because I KNOW,
He holds my future.....
My life is worth living
because He lives.




Thank YOU LORD for adding another beautiful year to my life, i must say, it is worth living because YOU are in this with me!



Yours Truly,

 He has been with me all through...........

Actress Funke Akindele's 1 year marriage to Kehinde Oloyede hits the rock!

Unfortunately this is not rumour, it's fact. A little over a year after tying the knot with Kehinde Oloyede, Nigerian popular actress Funke Akindele aka jenifa marriage has ended. 

Kehinde Oloyede shared the news of their split on his Facebook page (which he has since deleted). He wrote:

"It’s with heavy heart that am announcing the separation of me and ma wife Mrs olufunke akindele, we’ve both agreed to go our separate ways coz of irreconcilable differences.we still best of friends nd we 4ever remain gud friends.

Later he added...

"Am doing just fine, gettn along without u,don't need u anymore in ma life.u d greatest mistake av made in recent time.

Funke's publicist was reached out to, after reading the Facebook message, and they confirmed that the two have indeed gone their separate ways (for now). They've actually been having issues for a while and Funke had actually been planning to divorce him quietly, but Mr Oloyede decided to make it public

Funke and Kehinde during their marriage in 2012

Funke also recently changed her BB name from Mrs Funke Akindele Oloyede to Everybody loves Jenifa. Funke and Kehinde got married on Saturday May 26th 2012.

Soyinka’s Counsel To Dame Patience!

A few weeks ago, a newspaper reported that Dame Patience Jonathan had relocated to Port Harcourt to put finishing touches to her family’s plan to dethrone the duly elected governor of Rivers State, Rotimi Amaechi. 

Prof. Wole Soyinka

As is now usual with Jonathan’s spokespersons who think their raison d’etre is to lie on behalf of the president always, they quickly came out to declare that the story was not true. And as is the case with former stories they have denied, this one is unraveling before our very eyes.

Last week’s act of barbarism in Port Harcourt exposes the kind of presidency that has taken over the country – one that has neither regard for decency nor respect for the Nigerian nation. It is the same presidency which tacitly declared a candidate who got 16 votes winner over the other who got 19. This presidency shows no sophistication of any sort in its savage governance of the country.

Professor Wole Soyinka got the context perfectly. In admonishing Patience Jonathan, he rightly characterised her as a “mere domestic appendage”. You must be a “lady first before becoming a first lady”, he said. 

First lady of Nigeria, Dame Patience Jonathan

If the president cannot call his spouse to order, then, it will be in order for someone else to do it for him. That is exactly what Professor Soyinka did last week, and I think those who consider themselves elders and statesmen of the country should speak up now before our country is thrown to the dogs. I do not know anywhere in the world where a mere state permanent secretary, which by the way is what the first lady proudly considers herself, will organise the kind of thuggery we saw last week. I am not surprised that some people are already calling for the president’s impeachment.

Well, since the constitution has not provided for the impeachment of the first lady, maybe it will be better to impeach the president so that the first lady can get out of the way. That’s probably the logic. This should have been a laughing matter but for the fact that our country is being made a laughing stock.

There was a time I was an advocate for Dame Patience. I used to tell people who got entertained by her inimitable licence with the English language to allow Dame Patience to be herself. Now I know better. She must not be allowed to be herself. She should be first lady, not herself. This is the challenge we now have as a nation.

Granted, the first lady has no constitutional role but any nation’s first lady does not need a constitutional role to become a role model. The role model function comes with the job. First ladies all over the civilised world are always a stabilising force for their busy husbands and they are invariably more popular with the people than their politician and often controversial husbands. Indeed, there was a time Dame Patience played that role because, as many have testified, she is generally a good lady. But since she became the first lady in our nation’s chequered history to double as a local permanent secretary, she snapped.

My candid advice to our dear first lady is to find a role for herself in furthering the welfare of children, women, or even rehabilitating prostitutes. She should leave politics to politicians and thuggery to thugs.

And it is important for the president to take full charge of his domestic affairs. If he cannot take control of his household, should we then be surprised that the entire country is in such disarray? The aphorism that charity begins at home should apply even to presidents.

The president’s own competence is already a source of worry for Nigerians. Matters should not be complicated with an unhinged first lady.

US attorney general says Trayvon Martin inquiry to continue!

“The rape of justice anywhere ,violates justice everywhere” ― Colin Tegerdine

America's top prosecutor, Eric Holder, has said an investigation into the "tragic, unnecessary" death of 17-year-old Trayvon Martin will continue.

The justice department last year opened an inquiry into the unarmed black teenager's death, then stood aside to allow Florida's prosecution to proceed.

George Zimmerman, who said he opened fire in self-defence in February 2012, was cleared of murder on Saturday.

Civil rights groups have pledged further protests over the verdict.

Over the weekend, demonstrations across the country against the verdict have been mostly peaceful, with many demanding justice for Martin's family and questioning the fairness of the justice system.

'Strong passions'

US Attorney General Holder said on Monday that he understood concerns about the case.

"The justice department shares your concern," he told a black women's college alumnae group in Washington DC, to applause. "I share your concern."

Mr Holder said he hoped the country would take the opportunity "to speak honestly about the complicated and emotionally charged issues that this case has raised".

President Barack Obama has already acknowledged the case has elicited "strong passions", but emphasised: "We are a nation of laws, and a jury has spoken."

On Monday, the White House said that Mr Obama would not involve himself in the justice department's decision on whether to pursue civil rights charges against Mr Zimmerman, a 29-year-old former neighbourhood watch volunteer.

The department has a long history of using federal civil rights law in an effort to continue legal proceedings against defendants who have already been acquitted in related state cases. But convictions are often tough to obtain in such cases, analysts say.

Demonstrations are being planned in up to 100 cities next Saturday in front of federal buildings.

Civil rights leader and broadcaster Reverend Al Sharpton is organising those events through his National Action Network.

"I don't care if it's 20 people. We want to show the nation that over 100 cities a week later is still demanding justice," he told the Tom Joyner radio programme. "We're not having a fit, we're having a movement."

Mr Zimmerman was found not guilty of second-degree murder and manslaughter late on Saturday.

After the verdict was announced, there were protests across the US - including in San Francisco, Philadelphia, Chicago, Washington, Boston, San Diego and Atlanta.

The biggest demonstration, in New York, attracted thousands of people.

Los Angeles Mayor Eric Garcetti has returned from a visit to the East Coast to deal with clashes in his city between police and protesters at a rally after the verdict was handed down.

Police used bean-bag rounds and made six arrests while breaking up demonstrations in the early hours of Monday morning. No injuries have been reported.

The National Association for the Advancement of Colored People has also called for civil rights charges to be filed against Mr Zimmerman.

His family and representatives have said they are afraid he could fall victim to revenge attacks.

His brother Robert said he had received frequent threats on social media and there was "more reason now than ever to think that people are trying to kill him".

"He's going to be looking over his shoulder the rest of his life," he said.



“No man is justified in doing evil on the ground of expediency.” ― Theodore Roosevelt

Court Refuses Lebanese Bail as Amigo Remains Sealed!

A Federal High Court in Abuja has refused to admit the Lebanese owners of Amigo Supermarket and Wonderland Amusement Park, Abuja on bail as well as refused to unseal their business premises but granted them accelerated hearing.

The two businesses are said to belong to one of the accused, one  Mr. Fawaz.

Consequently, Justice Adeniyi Ademola fixed July 29, 30  and 31, 2013 for trial and accordingly ordered that the accused persons be remanded in the custody of the State Security Service (SSS).

The court ruled: "Having perused the proof of evidence as regards exhibits 8(1) to 8 (4), which is a large quantity of negative weapons, the accused may jump bail. Moreover, once the security of the state is in jeopardy, it is difficult for the court to grant bail. The court therefore refused the applicants/suspects bail. However, their liberty to their counsel, family members and medical team should be allowed them."

The suspects in court

The judge also ordered that the accused persons’ lawyers, their family and their doctors be allowed access to them.
The Judge held that the offence with which they were charged were grave.
His also noted that since the accused persons have dual citizenship, there was likelihood that they might flee the country and become unavailable to face their trial.